Adult Toys, Sex Toys and Games – Tips for Using These Items

Today many couples use adult toys and games for sexual stimulation and also for sexual satisfaction. Technology has advanced today and its use in making sex toys and games has made them more interesting and effective. These toys and games are available in the market whereas games can be played on internet too.

Medically a good quality sex toy for personal use does not cause any harm to health if the user is an adult. Make sure that the material used for making such a toy is acceptable to your delicate organs, it should be tested before use for allergies and irritations. Doctors treat use of sex toys and games as advanced form of masturbation and we all know that masturbation has been a part of human sexual behavior since times immemorial. Today’s busy life routine causes severe absence of proper lovemaking activities between couples due to lack of time which sometimes leads to behavioral disturbances in a partner or in both the partners. Sexual games and toys can help in a better way than masturbation to satisfy sexual desire and eagerness to an extent and helps a male or a female in controlling her emotional state.

People suffering with lack of desire and interest in lovemaking also find sex toys and games helpful in resolving this situation. Compared to other medications use of games for sexual stimulation or arousal is much cheap and easy. Woman suffering with vaginal dryness face quite severe pain during penetration and later, use of sex toys with lubrication many times cures this dryness by arousing her feelings for sex. These toys also help in spicing up the activity and can make the sexual act more pleasurable. Males facing problems of ED or PE can also use these adult toys to satisfy their partner as they are unable to hold stiffness in their genitals for sufficient duration which may leave their partner unsatisfied. Use of toys not only helps them in keeping their love life full of fun but also give them time and exposure to gain control over their problems related to over or under excitement.

Not to mention these sex toys and games shall be kept out of reach of young children as an immature mind cannot understand its proper use. Some precautions are necessary while using sex toys or adult toys. These toys shall be kept strictly for personal use and no one else should be allowed to use them to avoid STDs and other infections. Virus, bacteria and yeast responsible for various kinds of sexual infections and diseases can be transmitted by contaminated sex toys. Even if these toys are used personally their cleanliness is very important and it is better to use them by putting a condom on them. Toys used for anal penetration shall not be used for vaginal penetration as it may cause infection to the vagina. Use of separate condoms for anal and vaginal penetration is a safer way of enjoying sex with adult toys.

Using a Sex Toy With a Partner

There are many different types of adult toys available, so you and your partner are sure to find something that suits you both. Sex toys can add spice and excitement to the bedroom relationship, especially if you have been together for a long time. You don’t need to use toys every time you make love, but having a variety of them available to you can help you to both enjoy sex more often.

Sex toys often allow people to play out a fantasy with their partner. Some will enhance foreplay and others make the sexual orgasm experience more intense. You can choose sex toys that help you to play out a fantasy, such as a roleplay situation. Some toys give specific pleasure to men, others give pleasure to women and some are even unisex so that both partners can use the sex toy to give pleasure to each other.

Before you introduce a sex toy into your relationship, you should discuss it first with your partner. Make sure your partner feels as comfortable with the idea as you do. Discussing it first can help reduce any inhibitions and can add anticipation to the excitement mix. You can even shop online together for toys that you will both enjoy in your relationship.

Men often love a cock ring – a sex toy that fits snugly around the base of the man’s penis, heightening the sexual experience and making the man experience a deeper, longer lasting orgasm. Women who love to get clitoris stimulation will love a butterfly vibrator. This vibrator is more like a sex toy than a traditional vibrator, as the women wears it like a belt or attaches the straps to her thighs, leaving her hands free to play with her partner. The butterfly vibrator sits neatly onto the clitoris and leaves the vagina area free for penetration, so the man can penetrate the vagina while the woman enjoys continual clitoris stimulation, leading to multiple orgasms for the woman.

Lesbians will often use a dildo, giving the effect of vagina penetration without having all the disadvantages of having a man in the room. Other couples find that the man loves to use a dildo or vibrator to penetrate his woman while watching the waves of pleasure take her over as part of the foreplay. Using a sex toy like this gives the man full control and he can give pleasure to his woman without coming too soon himself and ruining the lovemaking experience. Vibrators often give women much pleasure and the partner can move the vibrator in and out of the vagina to tease the woman into enjoying the experience far more.

Sex toys are fun to use with consenting adults. They add spice, excitement, and interest to the lovemaking experience, as well as making multiple or deeper orgasms possible. Sex toys can make sex better for both partners.

What Is a Luxury Sex Toy?

What is a luxury sex toy? Everything from hand-crafted Murano glass dildos to gold plated vibrators!

Most sex toys consistent of poor design, materials that are not body-safe, don’t last beyond one or 2 uses and are loud enough to be heard in the next state.

Luxury sex toy’s performance, design, materials, and durability make them strikingly superior to the other adult toys in the market. Luxury adult toys are bought by discerning customers who seek a balance between style and substance and are willing to pay for a better product.

Why does performance matter? The best sex toys have stronger and quieter motors, which means better stimulation and more intense orgasms. Also, someone in the next room won’t hear what you are up to! High quality motors also have more speeds and settings so you don’t get bored. Many premium vibrators are remote controlled to make it easier to use alone or to use with a partner. Thinking about having fun in the shower or tub? Now you can because many of these adult toys are waterproof so that you can have fun anywhere.

What kind of materials are used in luxury adult toys? All luxury adult toys are body safe. They are phthalate free and use the highest grade medical silicone, where the silicone won’t disintegrate or breakdown over time. Other materials used are eco-friendly and last forever. Green and sustainable materials include: 24K gold; stainless steel; aluminum; stone; wood; and glass.

What about battery life? With luxury adult toys, you don’t have to worry about always having batteries on hand or being in the middle of something when the batteries die. The best vibrators are usually rechargeable or have a strong battery life.

How many of us love Apple products? Their entire product line is not only functional but beautiful. Some might even say that they are works of art. The same is true for luxury sex toys. Some are so beautiful or nondescript that you could leave them out in your bedroom and no one would know their true function. Premium sex toys manufacturers are innovators. They design products that are unique and stylish and are have added some cool new features. Luxury doesn’t always stop at the actual product. The packaging that comes with the high quality adult toys is elegant and beautifully designed as well.

Simply put and what has stood the test of time: you get what you pay for.

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Toys Aren’t Just for Kids – Why Adults Should Explore Toys in Their Love Lives

We love going to Toys R Us and of the toy stores, because the displays are just amazingly vibrant – all the counters and walls are draped with these bright, blazing primary colors with packages designed to capture the eye and hold your attention.

For us, it’s also fun going to couples’ stores where adult toys are sold, because the displays are strikingly the same, awash in primary colors with a few more bright pinks, reds and purples – though the imagery is typically far from family friendly.

We’re enthused that adult toys have become more mainstream, but we also know there are a lot of people out there who are reluctant to consider the use of what used to be called “marital aids” in their bedroom repertoire. Many couples won’t even set foot in an adult video or toy store for fear of what the neighbors might say, or just a feeling that those toys are only used by swingers or people obsessed with sex.

Well, having been sexologists for nearly a decade, we have a little news for you – your neighbors have probably already been there.

Toys can be a healthy and welcome addition to a couple’s bedroom practices, but we do understand the reasons why many people haven’t yet ventured behind the curtain to see what’s out there for them. So, we’ve assembled a few of the reasons we’ve heard over the years, with a slightly more enlightened view to counter them.

Only Dirty People Use Them – There is a sense, you could even call it a mild prudishness that some couples have regarding sex toys. We attribute that to the compressed conflict that is sexuality in America. We use sex to sell cars, beer, Web site domains (thanks for the cheesecake, GoDaddy!) and even corn chips, but we are reluctant to address our own sexuality with the same openness. Sex isn’t dirty, unless, of course, thinking of it as dirty is a turn-on for you. The truth is, sex is healthy, fun and downright necessary for a strong, long-term romantic relationship. Being ashamed of enjoying sex is like being ashamed of eating to us. It’s a normal, healthy human activity when performed by consenting adults. So, if sex isn’t dirty, neither are toys used to enhance the sexual experience. If you’ve never gone to an adult toy store, the initial imagery may be a little shocking, but if you go in with an open mind, you might actually find yourself having fun before you know it.

Toys Are Only for Masturbation – Over the years, as the sexual revolution took hold, women became empowered and chose to indulge their desires with or without a partner and stop being ashamed of their own sexuality. The sale and use of vibrators and other toys skyrocketed, and these toys became associated primarily with masturbation. But that is not their only function. In point of fact, many toys are far more effective and fun when they are wielded by a partner. Now, you don’t really need to be a sexologist to figure that out. A little basic geometry is all you need. When you compare the range of angles a woman can reach using her own arm to the range of motion by a partner who is correctly positioned, it’s clear that a partner can do a lot more with those toys to help a woman receive the full benefit of whatever implements she may have in the toy bag. In fact, many toys on the market today are specifically designed to be used by a partner and are practically useless for masturbation. So, wipe away that old connotation of toys. Some games are most definitely more fun when played by two.

Toys Will Replace Me as a Partner – As a tandem of the above concern, some partners are concerned that some toys may deliver sensations and experiences that just cannot be matched by simple human to human interaction, and they fear that the toys will replace them in bed. Granted, there are some toys that are very ingenuitive these days, from swivel-headed vibrators to the Sybian (think of a sit-down vibrator run by an outboard motor), and we completely understand how they can be a little intimidating. There has been many a partner who has had to peel a woman off the ceiling after experiencing some of the more innovative devices on the market. But a toy cannot replace the sexual dynamic that two people can achieve together. The largest and most important sexual organ in the human body is the brain, and no matter the horsepower of the toy involved, they have yet to market anything with the imagination and creativity of the human mind. By joining your partner in the enjoyment of toys, you will be an inextricable part of their sexual lives and your role will be secure as long as you share your hearts and your imaginations together.

So don’t be afraid. Minds work best when they are open. And so do toys, once they are out of the box and in your bedroom.